Dirty Divorce Tricks
"Forget What the Papers Say, I'll Do This or That"
|Spouse #1||"I still love you, but we need a trial separation or I'll have to divorce you immediately. Meanwhile, you go stay at the YMCA and leave me here in the home with the kids."|
|Spouse #2||"I love you too. For the sake of our marriage, I'll do whatever it takes."|
Several months later, Spouse #1 serves Spouse #2 with a Petition for Dissolution, seeking sole physical custody of the children and occupancy of the homestead. Spouse #1 argues that Spouse #2 "abandoned" them.
This one happens a lot - very sad and cruel.
Dupe signs the papers, and you know what happens next. There are various manifestations of this dirty trick, such as:
"Oh By the Way, Kid #3 Isn't Yours."
Remember, "the papers" are always controlling. Your verbal side-agreements are totally unenforceable.
- "Sign the papers giving me sole physical custody. You know I'll let you see the kids whenever you want."
- "Give me custody this year, and then I'll let you have custody when the child starts school (or substitute some such future event or time frame)."
- "Sign the papers withholding X amount of child support from your pay. I know it's too high, but I'll refund the difference."
This one is rare, but happens. At the time of divorce, the father learns for the first time that
one or more of the children he thought were his in fact were sired by his best friend, neighbor,
co-worker, or some guy he's never heard of from the local pub. Sometimes this can cause problems
obtaining custody, because if the real father obtains a paternity order, a major legal obstacle
is created. Now the husband-father must either try to obtain custody of only his own biological
children, which is unlikely given the strong case law against splitting up siblings, or he must
try to get custody of all of the children, including those not his own, which is extra difficult
when you're not the father.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Eric C. Nelson has devoted his practice exclusively to family law, with particular focus on divorce
and child custody matters, including, but not limited to post-decree modification of custody.
Eric has successfully handled hundreds of cases of divorces (both contested and uncontested),
child custody, child support, spousal maintenance, parenting time, out-of-state moves, domestic abuse,
harassment, and other miscellaneous family law matters, both in and out of court.
Mr. Nelson has been praised by clients for a respectful attitude, promptness and honesty.
He can be contacted by phone at (612)321-9402 or or Visit Web Site
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