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DIVORCE HEADQUARTERS NEWSLETTER Issue #9, March 2001
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In this Issue:
- New Bankruptcy Law Passes House and Senate
- Alimony and Child Support
by Carol A. Butler, PhD and Dolores D. Walker, M.S.W., J.D.
- Divorce Terminology
- Divorce Humor
1. New Bankruptcy Law Passes House and Senate
By now you have probably heard about the sweeping legislation
passed by the both the House and Senate last week. President
Bush supports the legislation that would drastically change
the bankruptcy laws, as they now exist. You may be wondering
if this can affect you. Yes, it can. It would make it harder
for people to erase their credit card and other debts in
bankruptcy court. It applies new standards for deciding
whether people filing for bankruptcy should be forced to repay
their debts under a court-approved reorganization plan, under
Chapter 13 of the Bankruptcy Code, rather than having their
unsecured debt dissolved under Chapter 7 of the code. In other
words, if a debtor is found to have enough income to repay at
least 25 percent over five years, a reorganization plan
generally would be required. Bankruptcy judges would have less
discretion than they do now.
According to a press release issued by the nation's top
divorce and matrimonial attorneys, it will adversely affect
child support payments across the country. Child support
payments currently receive priority in bankruptcy proceedings.
Under the new bill, the deferral or relief from credit card
payments, technically known as their dischargeability, would
be limited, so that children and credit card payments would
have the same priority, and payments would be split between them.
The following is an excerpt from an article submitted by one of our
professional members. For full text of all articles visit
http://Divorcehq.com/articles.html
2. Alimony and Child Support
by Carol A. Butler, PhD and Dolores D. Walker, M.S.W., J.D.
In many divorces, alimony and child support create the most
anxiety for couples about to begin negotiating a settlement,
but in reality they are often the easiest issues to resolve.
Expectations or fears about alimony are usually unrealistic,
and the minimum amounts required for child support are quite
specific and easy to calculate for most families.
In this section we will explain what goes into making a
decision about alimony, and we will define the three types
of alimony (permanent, temporary, or rehabilitative) which
it may be appropriate to consider. We will also explain the
role of the child support guidelines provided by every state,
and how you can make your own decisions in mediation about
child support.
The word alimony describes support payments made by one
ex-spouse to the other. In some states this is called
maintenance or spousal support. Few states have legal
guidelines about alimony. Some states continue to grant
long-term alimony if there has been a long marriage and there
will be a significant disparity in earning capacity, but in
recent years the trend has been away from providing life-long
income for the former spouse. In most states, alimony is paid
if there is a significant imbalance in income, and only to
allow the less-moneyed person to become self-supporting over
a specific period of time through education or special
training. Spousal support is also sometimes provided for a
specific period of time so that a parent can stay home to care
for a very young child.
Unlike alimony, each state does have guidelines which describe
what child support must include. In this section, we answer
several questions about how child support payments are
calculated. Your own agreement may vary from the guidelines in
your state, but only in rare circumstances is it permissible
for the total amount spent on your child to be lower than the
guidelines' minimum. In most situations, couples find that the
minimum amounts described in the guidelines are affordable,
and we have found in many of the divorces we have mediated that
parents were willing to commit more than the state requires so
that they could provide "extras" for their children.
If there is very little money or income, child support will be
considered first. The best interests of the child is an
important principle in divorce law, so alimony can only be
discussed after provisions have been made for the children's
needs. The IRS treats child support and alimony very differently.
For the full version of their article including a list of
commonly asked questions about alimony and child support, go to:
http://www.divorcehq.com/articles/alimonysupport.html
ABOUT THE AUTHORS
Dolores D. Walker, M.S.W., J.D. is an attorney and
psychotherapist specializing in mediation with a practice
located at 153 Waverly Place, Suite 1111, New York, NY 10014
Dolores can be contacted by phone at (212)691-6073 or or Visit Web Site
Carol A. Butler, PhD is a mediator and psychotherapist with a
practice located at 60 West 13th Street, New York, NY 10011.
3. Divorce Terminology
Child Support Guidelines -
Sometimes, when you're new to the process of divorce you hear
certain phrases and you wonder what they may need or how they
will affect you. Many times you may have heard the term child
support and child support guidelines. When your attorney
talks about child support guidelines he or she is referring to
the amount of child support to be paid, under normal
circumstances, according to a schedule established by the
state, based upon income. It is federally mandated that all
states establish guidelines for child support. The way in
which a state determines the amount of child support is often
very confusing. Keep in mind that the states establish their
guidelines based on many things, including the earning ability
in your area as well as the cost of living.
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DivorceHQ.com is about to launch our latest addition to the
site. We will be adding a free child support calculator that
will assist you in determining your child support obligation.
4. HUMOR
I'd live life in the fast lane but I'm married to a speed bump.
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