Divorce Presents Many With The Opportunity For Fresh Start
Divorce is, quite literally, a termination point. A union of two lives, whether over several years or just a few months, comes to an end with the strike of a judge's gavel. At that moment, one road travelled together ends and two new roads must be built and navigated separately. Before the union can be dissolved, though, its fruits...from children to lake cottages...must be accounted for and allocated between the parties. At the beginning of a divorce, husband and wife will do a lot of looking back taking stock of what they accumulated. But, for a divorce to deliver its full measure of liberation, it should also be a time for looking forward. Minimally, the court will require both husband and wife to estimate what their individual income and living expenses will be so it can determine how child support expenses will be divided, and if one spouse will have a duty to support the other after the marriage. From my perspective, though, the opportunity presented by divorce is far greater than that. It's a chance to begin anew, to restructure one's life. Helping my clients define who they want to be after divorce is an important part of my practice, which I call The ConstructiveDivorce®. While sifting through old tax returns, brokerage statements, and property deeds, many clients have experienced a kind of epiphany-an immediate recognition that some part, or all, of where they've been is not where they want to spend the future.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
For over 25 years Cynthia M. Fox has focused her practice in family law, with a particular emphasis on matters relating to the dissolution of marriage: divorce representation and mediation, child custody and child support. She is a native St. Louis and a graduate of the Washington University School of Law, Class of '73.
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